Self-ism.

Do you know that the literal meaning of autism is self-ism? This is an interesting link, with a view from an adult autism sufferer....and she details how oftentimes she is into herself, and therefore not noticing the needs or words of others.

Do you think we would have less autism if we trained members of our society to be less selfish? There are seemingly hopeless situations, but most people can think of a quality example of a very polite 3 year old. If a 3-year old can polite, then the same expectations of a 14-year-old-with-the-mentality-of-a-6-year-old should exist. Teach them to notice others. Hold their face and have them look you in the eye, to see that eye contact is respectful of others. Tell them to say hello, even if it is uncomfortable. I had a 2-1/2 year old diagnosed with asperger's, and now you would have to spend a great deal of time with her for anyone to know. She is sweet, quiet, has control, obeys, does not throw tantrums...all things that were once HOURLY issues in her little life. Believe me, the effort will pay off in the enjoyment you receive from those in your life who are worth your time.